I have suffered the lost of both my parents and a few close people in my life. I was a hospice CNA for private care patients.

Don't worry about how you feel right now. His death and all that is happening and will happen will bring the reality to you over time. Life wil be adjusted and you will morn for the lost. For most people a lost of someone close morning can take 18 months.

Becareful of depression and mood swings. There are lots of difffent things you can go through when you morn. I don't know if you have hospice near you if so keep intouch with them and maybe get involoved with their groups. They help a lot!

--
Remember to BGB
Joe

Please visit my website @ [link]

Thanks Joe, I hope that when the reality bites it won't be too painful. I think I feel more pain for my mum. I can't imagine how you go on when you've lost your soul mate (whether you believe you will see them again or not). It must hurt so much.
Thanks again!

--
Cracked eggs, dead birds, scream as they fight for life
I can feel death, can see its beady eyes

YOu are most welcome. The best medicine for your mom is to get her to talk about your dad and if you can how she feel "today" about everything. Let her cry if she want too. To loose someone very close hurts a lot and the expectation of seeing them again doesn't come close to comfort anyone. It will be the everyday small things that will remind your mom and you of your dad and the loss of him in your life. It takes time to adjust and nothing can hurry that. YOu take one day at a time and think, wonder, care, cry, and deal. Sometimes you don't deal well and some days you deal better than you expect. Life has a way of moving on beyond the pain and the memories are left. YOu will do well if you talk about it with your mom and she with you.

--
Remember to BGB
Joe

Please visit my website @ [link]

Beautiful picture of you and your daddy. Lots of love to you, Penny

--
<sub>"Sex is like pizza. Even when it's bad, it's still fucking pizza." - =CleverConveyence

=StarKissedSapphire - We are sisters at heart, just miles apart</sub>

You look beautiful - and take some comfort in the fact that he got to see the wedding.

--
Just because it is impossible now - doesn't mean it always will be.

Check out my stock account ~density-stock

PS take care.

--
Just because it is impossible now - doesn't mean it always will be.

Check out my stock account ~density-stock

Thanks Joe, that's wonderful advice.

--
Cracked eggs, dead birds, scream as they fight for life
I can feel death, can see its beady eyes

You are more than welcome, we are all in this life together, and I have been there and done that.

--
Remember to BGB
Joe

Please visit my website @ [link]